Finally........

Dec. 17 I got to spend a few minutes with them. Then had them from Christmas Day thru Jan 2, 2011 and now it's back to every other weekend. :-) It's been absolutely AWESOME!!!!! They're loving it, too!

There is still hostility from their mom and her new _____ ...I mean her new husband - trying to intimidate & provoke me, and accusing me of lying among other things. And she is still flying accusations & allegations. Apparently she still has a need to try to make me look bad somehow in the eyes of others - including and especially our sons' eyes. :( Thankfully they seem to know better but I have no doubt she'll keep trying to re-enforce her ugliness, her past actions & bitterness on them by continuing to plant thoughts & suggestions as she has recently. ...sad, sad bummer.

Anyway, I'm just focusing on the boys. No girlfriends or activities that might interfere with them, etc. Just the boys, their well-being & happiness. :-)